Have you ever seen an individual stagnant in a position with no sign of moving ahead? Struggling to make things work out and yet, notwithstanding his efforts, it still doesn’t push him forward? Seemed like walking round a circle with so much strength, haste and everything disposable and still, it doesn’t count. Waking up very early in the morning, coming home late at night only to find out that you are still where you are at the end of the year. That may Possibly describe you.
It can be demoralizing and shameful. Such quandary has lead many into taking their life. Most especially those with huge responsibilities pilled up in their head. And when the expectations are so overwhelming, their only resolution becomes suicide. You wish you have got that dreamed job. “Life will be so much better.” You might say. Or maybe that admission isn’t forthcoming and you feel cursed.
“What am I doing wrong?”
“What’s wrong with me?”
“Henry, something is definitely wrong somewhere.”
Of course something is wrong but the good news is; you can fix it. Yes! YOU can fix it. You will only fix it by letting go. Be getting rid of that garbage.
You need love again in your life and yet, you haven’t entirely let go of that former failed relationship. Believe me, it doesn’t work that way. You need a job but still doubt whether is still possible. You need admission and still, you believe you don’t have what it takes to soar through. Peradventure, you are carrying a burden of unforgiveness, envy, past hurts and disappointments. If you can’t get rid of the negativities of the past, don’t expect positivity in the present.
Getting rid of that poor mindset, is like getting rid of a wineskin expecting to receive a fresh wine. Everything you need to overcome is already in you. They have been deposited for your use. The ability to get that job, that admission, that husband, that child is already in you. In other to pass through another door, another door must close. Empty your luggage and fill it with something beautiful. Something that fits you.
One of the major setback in our life is when be began to compare ourselves with others forgetting that we thread on different paths. We forgot to take note that we have different purpose. He bought a car and you havent gotten even a bicycle doesn’t mean the wold has ended. She is getting married doesn’t make you a loser. Get rid of that poor mindset, get rid of that garbage and see you life moving forward.